Recently I had the chance to reconnect with a friend and we had lunch together. As we sat and talked I marveled at how much he had grown. Then God spoke to me right in the middle of our time together; “This is who he was all along – the environment was incapable of keeping pace with his capacity.” WOW!! So then I wondered, “why was he in that location in the first place? it would seem illogical to place someone in a space and place that is not going to benefit them…” Again, God answered; “I placed him there for a season, not a lifetime. That environment was for a particular time and PART, NOT ALL, of his growth.” WOW, AGAIN!!!
So I learned several lessons. FIRST, we really don’t know the constitution of the people we are around. David’s brothers only knew him as a shepherd – God knew him as a king.
SECOND, we are all on a journey. Therefore, we must be careful to not mistake a temporary stop for a final destination. The children of Israel were instructed to watch the direction of the cloud, not the designation of the camp. They had to be ready to move when God wanted them to move.
THIRD, learn the law of seasons. Don’t hold tightly that which God holds loosely; don’t hold loosely that which God holds tightly. Learn the season of a thing. Learn the season for that job; learn the season for that relationship (for instance, a marital relationship has a completely different season than a dating relationship); learn the season for that affiliation; learn the season for that task (some tasks must be completed within a certain season, a window of fulfillment). When you miss the season of the thing, it could cause many problems. It’s like dressing as if it’s the summer in the middle of the winter – you’ve missed the season and you will have serious consequences as a result.
FOURTH, put the environment you are in, in its proper perspective to the person you are within. Know the purpose of that environment for your life. When you stay too long in an environment that you are bigger than, it works against you. You stop growing; you stop learning. And in some instances, you can regress. When you don’t stay long enough in an environment that’s bigger than you, you miss the opportunities that have been given to you to be in that environment for the purpose(s) that God has determined to benefit you.
If I had to sum it all up, I would say it like this; Know who you are in relation to where you are and make adjustments accordingly.